1. 表現關心
從小處做起。你可能無法體會到他們的苦，可是表現你得關心卻能讓人感受到一絲的溫暖。一句簡單的「你好嗎？」 或是閒話家常都會讓對方得到鼓舞，為這個世界增添一點溫情。
2. Be enthusiastic
If you show enthusiasm，it means you want to get to know them or you’re really interested in what they are saying. There would be this automatic attraction. People read emotions and enthusiasm as a good way to b) evoke more out of the person you are talking to.
2. 熱情一點
如果你表現出熱情，這意味著你想要了解對方，或對人們所說的話感興趣。這會自然產生共鳴。人們視情緒和熱情為喚起更多與人溝通的一個正向方式。
3. Earn trust
How to know if the person is trustworthy? Well，it’s somewhat difficult to do so. But showing sincerity，giving the true smile and asking questions are an indication of trust. You want people to trust you，and then you have to at least try and make it happen. Relate something that shares c) resemblance to what they’ve experienced to encourage.
3. 贏得信任
如何判斷此人是否可靠呢？這其實有點困難。但表示誠意，讓微笑發自內心，以關懷的語氣問對方問題是信任的準則。你希望人能相信你，你得先相信別人。分享共有的相關經驗，以達到鼓舞的目的。
4. Explore alternative thoughts and ideas
Don’t be stubborn. Be open-minded. Why is it that they do it this way? Or why is it that they think this way? We’re all different in our own ways
